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you would be correct simon lol

Your a person of very few words arnt you? Not even so much as any introduction, nothing about you at all, you just walked into a strange place and passed round some photo's of you in stilettos and said almost nothing.

How does that look in reality?

Imagine that in real life, a guy walks into a bar/club/park and passes out some pictures of himself in stilettos and the very first thing he says is only to announce the make/style of the shoe.

You think anybody would find him really creepy? :lol:

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I think that would depend on the kind of bar etc. I guess in certain ones which cater to men in heels it wouldn't be quite so creepy.

That said, an introduction is considered polite in any social situation.

ok, maybe "Anti-socially odd" is a better way to say it. Just gets my back up when people join up, and cant even bother to take a minute to introduce themselves, like they have forgotten how to socialise or even say hello....

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well this is heels 4 men isnt it? speaking of what u were saying i would rather conceal my identity and yea u can guess why its pretty self explanetory.

You can still be social without others knowing your personal identity. If not, then why on earth did you join?

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well this is heels 4 men isnt it? speaking of what u were saying i would rather conceal my identity and yea u can guess why its pretty self explanetory.

So let me say welcome to the forum qsdd51.

Whilst you cwertainly do not have to reveal anything to identify yourself, you are not doing anything wrong by enjoying to wear high heels - unless you yourself feel it is wrong. It takes time of course to come to accept that this is what you enjoy especially as it flies in the face of society's perception of how we men should be, but there it is. You are not the first and certainly not the last to wear heels, and especially stiletto heels.

The key thing about heels is to seperated the wearing from the eroticism. That is really hard to do with stiletto heels. I guess, because you chose the pleaser Milan range, you would not consider wearing a 3" cuban heeled shoe as in my avatar. This says to me that the wearing of heels for you is not a fashion matter. This would then backup you wish to remain as anonymous as possible. Fair enough if that is your thing, but...

I believe that this forum is about the fashion side, as opposed to the fetish side, of men wearing heels. So I wear my avatar shoes with evening dress, and other cuban heels of the 3" variety almost all the time. No problem. They are mens shoes - rare to see of course, but nevertheless still mens shoes so why would I be concerned stepping out the door in them.

I think what Admin and others are trying to say is that you could tell us lots about your view on heels and styles, how you like to incorporate them in your wardrobe and so on. Now I use my Christian name in my posts. Why not, I am not the only person called Simon in the world, and anyway if you are that worried, use another name. No one is out to discover your wearing of stiletto heels and blab it all over the place, unless you just happen to be an A list celeb, but then an A list celeb wearing heels (any style) often in public would get it acceptable for us regular Joes.

So please don't be so shy.

Simon.

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So let me say welcome to the forum qsdd51.

Whilst you cwertainly do not have to reveal anything to identify yourself, you are not doing anything wrong by enjoying to wear high heels - unless you yourself feel it is wrong. It takes time of course to come to accept that this is what you enjoy especially as it flies in the face of society's perception of how we men should be, but there it is. You are not the first and certainly not the last to wear heels, and especially stiletto heels.

The key thing about heels is to seperated the wearing from the eroticism. That is really hard to do with stiletto heels. I guess, because you chose the pleaser Milan range, you would not consider wearing a 3" cuban heeled shoe as in my avatar. This says to me that the wearing of heels for you is not a fashion matter. This would then backup you wish to remain as anonymous as possible. Fair enough if that is your thing, but...

I believe that this forum is about the fashion side, as opposed to the fetish side, of men wearing heels. So I wear my avatar shoes with evening dress, and other cuban heels of the 3" variety almost all the time. No problem. They are mens shoes - rare to see of course, but nevertheless still mens shoes so why would I be concerned stepping out the door in them.

I think what Admin and others are trying to say is that you could tell us lots about your view on heels and styles, how you like to incorporate them in your wardrobe and so on. Now I use my Christian name in my posts. Why not, I am not the only person called Simon in the world, and anyway if you are that worried, use another name. No one is out to discover your wearing of stiletto heels and blab it all over the place, unless you just happen to be an A list celeb, but then an A list celeb wearing heels (any style) often in public would get it acceptable for us regular Joes.

So please don't be so shy.

Simon.

i agree. when you think about it, most men who are around 40 years old or more have most likely wore a high heel style before. i was wearing a pair of 4'' heels when i was 10 years old as that was the mens fasion back in the 1970's. the only difference is that they were sold as mens footwear so it did not matter if a man wore flat or high heels. if anything you got a strange look and were considered as unfashionable if you NEVER wore heels in the 70's

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