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Nobody is looking for professional photos. People even take pictures of themselves using a mirror, @ 5ft.... You dont need a lot of space, certainly not 30ft to take a basic picture of yourself.

Hi There Please see the rules/guidelines, these have now been updated.

ok, so far so good, I've enabled "Automatic approval of gallery comments, but if it turns into some sort of spam-fest, let me know and I'll re-enable it and add this to the website help files so people can find it. Profile not working??? Still no "useful" information on whats wrong with it. I've tried it as users too, and it seems to work just fine, so, if you can be a lot more exact, as in "I clicked x,y,z, then got "this messege" that would actually be helpful

Thanks Guys... However, if your both going to tell me that "The user profile doesnt work", but not tell me which parts, or be specific, I'm never going to know exactly what you mean by "User profile doesnt work"...? You take you car to thr mechanic and tell him "It doesnt work", whats he going to say... lol

Well guys... Now that the new layout and style and upgrade has finally happened, and heels4men no longer looks like a pile of trash, do you lot have any thoughts or feedback? Any additions you might like to see added to further improve the place?

Why is this being posted in the "membership numbers" thread in tech help? lol

Well guys/girls Am now updating the membership ranking system, so let me know, what membership rank titles would you like to have? Would you like the ranks to be footwear related or something else? I think its safe to set the highest rank at 100,000+ posts, with some sort of prize for acheiving that, at least?

Hiya Lori Welcome to H4M, and welcome to the newest version, which even I can say is a damn site better than its previous version that I managed to screw up... lol I look forward to hearing more from you, and if you do have any thoughts on the new website then please do let me know :smile:

Kev While they do look like they have had some ourdoor wear, it does look very minimal, and for the actual strap to tear, not the fixing point, would take some doing in either weak materials or poorly fitting footwear, or it has been put under some stress, hard to say.. Keep in mind however that the customer is NOT always right, if they were, they wouldnt need other peoples help to start with. I'm not sticking up for them, as clearly they are somewhat disorganised, and as a reseller of pleasers, could easily send back the shoes to pleaser, although it doesnt help that yours are showing signs of outdoor usage, as it is difficult to determine if it was a case of faulty merchandise or over-stressing what is clearly a fragile strap. Customers are not always very honest either when things go wrong, I know from experience, we have an internet store, and some of the things we here are nuts, and when we get the products back and take a look, its far from what the customer said happened. So no, the customer is NOT always right, unfortunately, BUT, the store could have handled your problem far better than they did... I think thats a fair conclusion, given what you have said, and showed us. Basically, you got what you paid for, buy cheap, buy twice...

You can still be social without others knowing your personal identity. If not, then why on earth did you join?

ok, maybe "Anti-socially odd" is a better way to say it. Just gets my back up when people join up, and cant even bother to take a minute to introduce themselves, like they have forgotten how to socialise or even say hello....

Your a person of very few words arnt you? Not even so much as any introduction, nothing about you at all, you just walked into a strange place and passed round some photo's of you in stilettos and said almost nothing. How does that look in reality? Imagine that in real life, a guy walks into a bar/club/park and passes out some pictures of himself in stilettos and the very first thing he says is only to announce the make/style of the shoe. You think anybody would find him really creepy?

Read some of his other posts around the place and you will find the answers to those questions...

Nigel, sounds like the middle option is best for you bud: I WALK IN HEELS IN PUBLIC EVERYDAY. IM NOT SHY Your not shy, it mentions nothing of "girls heels" and you wear them every day "you" want to. I wear heels whenever I like too, not always EVERY day, but like all things, its mood dependant, and also depends what I'm doing.

indeed, as Nigel says, that one post you have there is seriously crap (Keeping the language as polite as possible) I'm actually going to remove your links now because you truly should know better than to post links to this kind of fetish nonsense here. As for that garbage on your homepage about it being for gay/straight etc etc, why isnt it just for men... Why the need to make it into something its not, why does a persons sexuality have to come into it?

Actually, I do mind the name you have chosen as your yahoo group does not provide any disclaimer that it is NOT owned or operated by those who run this website. Can you either put up a disclaimer, or change the name of the group? You agree not to use the "Heels4men" name when you joined here for any websites or internet groups.

Sounds like a great idea except for having to wear pink heels, I think that may undo your "Putting the HE into heels" by turning it into some sort of "joke like for charity event", thus preventing it being taken as seriously...

Out of curiosity, are your neighbours a part of your lives? Like best friends would be or something? As for the "Going out late at night", I think it all boils down to being appropriate. Many guys want to wear and dress in a way thats in-appropriate, or just bad taste/bad fashion or whatever you want to call it, and so if they actually made the effort and dressed properly, dressed according to the occassion, and in keeping with "a time and place for everything" then there truly shouldnt be a problem. What you do however find is that some guys look like they just crawled out of a skip, with their brightest, shiniest stilleto pumps on, as if to say "I care about shoes more than i care about myself". Even when you see some of the pictures guys post of their shoes, you look at the background behind them to see a filthy home thats clearly neglected, yet they are sporting a brand new shiny pair of stilettoes that even most women would never dream of wearing for fear of being picked up by the police for being a hooker. Then they want to tell the whole world how they went for a walk in them at 2am (Probably looking like a tramp), well, I'm sorry but not only is that highly inappropriate, but imagine the noice it makes at that time of night! Its as if some guys really do need a lesson in how to dress themselves, how to shave/wash/walk etc and how to actually not be a slob. Anyway, sorry for ranting on, its just boils my blood when some guys make all of us look like fetish perv's just by doing things really badly.

Ditto, I'm sick of all the "wanna-be" women who rave about strolling around in the neighbourhood at god knows what hour of the night. How weird is that, some guy wandering down the street in the dark, REALLY late at night and all you can hear are his stilettos.. I tread on many toes already, but I'm not bothered, I just tell it how it is and how I see it.

Indeed, the heel shape and height is absolutely perfect, which I think makes them so much easier and more comfortable to walk in too I agree though, a lot of guys are "into" heels for the wrong reasons, mostly just for getting their rocks off, and never as a proper or serious fashion... I was sooo dissapointed too that they dont make these anymore, I sooo wanted the knee high version too :grin:

Tell me about it, they a real pleasure to wear and so seriously comfortable and the noise they make is sweeeet, specially on polishes starbucks tiled floors.. Sainsbury's on the way home was fairly clunky too as they also have tiled floor in Battersea.... Pictures.... Dont have any at the moment, but I'm sure I can muster up a pic sometime soon. I'm more of a "Just get on with it" kinda heeler and enjoy my heeling, aint really into the whole "oh my god I'm wearing heels" anymore, got over that years ago... Now there just like any other clothing, only more fun to wear...

Fantastic, good move...

Exactly our point, very well put

Indeed, in fact, Google can detect if too many clicks are coming from the same IP (The person doing the clicking) and as such, if it detects too many, it voids all of them as clickfraud (Trying to make money by fraudulently clicking the ads) So on the one hand, your initial clicks do help a little, too many wipe out all of them I can tell you though, "revenue" is around