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You are right. We tend to think with ourselves as a reference. My gf knows my shoe thing and she even does not mind me wearing them when we go out, as long as (yes there is a restriction) it looks well coordinated and we do not attact to much attention from others. I'm fine with that as I can wear and buy anythnig I like.

@FastFreddy2 That might happen in the near future. I will give you a heads-up when and if it happens. Thanks for the offer.

I have you some 70 miles from the centre of the universe (London) so that doesn't help you much. That said, I know of 3 others (members here) that if they too travelled up to your maximum of 50 miles, could all find a common location for a meet up together. Will never happen. (Although I have met two of them.) As you well know, I am happy to meet up with anyone. Sadly, even people I have met in the past (sometimes regularly) have other demands that push their interest of a meet into a very low place on their list of priorities. Even when I have known for sure the people buying womens shoes off me are men, and they are buying for themselves, they are reluctant to get into a dialogue over their interest. I was going to write; "I've no idea why", but then thought: wives. If your wife/girlfriend does not know or doesn't approve of your secret, social activity isn't going to happen. We are our own jailer. (My last philosophical remark today. )

Nearly every active member here is in the UK, so that's quite a drive for a meet. Getting Brits to meet up in the UK is nearly impossible, so a meet on mainland Europe ..... If ever you wander over to here though, I'd be happy to meet you.