"A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." -- Confucius
Before I went daytime public, I spent a lot of time walking in desolate areas, at night.
It wasn't unusual (at the time) for me to walk a couple of miles a week in heels. The intention was respond to my long suppressed need to enjoy wearing them, and to help me become proficient in heels so as to not draw attention. It was months before I went out in daylight.
Was worth the wait though .....
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