Hi HFMROK,
thank you for your compliment on my fashion style. I still think the point you are trying to make is a good one that can be presented to the general public through the sites I have mentioned. I agree that you may find some people are looking specifically for fetish media, but there are many that are just shoe fanatics and are just looking for different styles or inspiration. Maybe knowing other men wear some womens styles may encourage them to join us.
It would not be possible to vet everyone who visit's this or any other site, so I would not suggest it is attempted.
If the fetishist finds him or herself here and does not find what they want they will probably go elsewhere anyway or see that they could wear them more often with a different approach.
You need to get people through the front door, you will not get anyone comming in without a sign outside the front door saying what is on offer inside.
My suggestion is to get your best pictures and post them with the references I mentioned, you may be pleasently surprised by the type and amount of people that may join us.
I have nothing against the TV CD community, I think they are a brave bunch of creative people and may even be able to help us with oportunities to wear our heels in an environment that would be accepting of us, as we can be of them, when you are in a minority, we all need all the help we can get.
Thanks again for your comments, those shoes of yours do look good for what you do in them.
live and let live.
V