Welcome "I'm Scared"
Go quite, step by step. I first bought 2in-heel western boots and let them become my all-day footwear. My girlfriend didn't care about heel height, 2in is quite common with western boots. One day she wanted her own pair of western boots, high heeled of course, to be able to match our styles.
Later, as my heels became 1in higher, we agreed to separate our styles: All kinds of slim heels and platforms are for her and block heels for me. With heels, i wear business suit with tie. On the street we look as a any other stylish dressed couple. Dressed this way, she keeps her eye-catching role, as it usually is.
Really few people become aware, that not she is the eccentric, but me. We enjoy getting people's attention, sometimes confusing them. It's one of our turn-ons :wink:.
I never got any kind of remark about my footwear, so don't worry - enjoy your life.