Gustav

I would like to see a forum on last minute meet ups as that would be very useful and also one for "adventures" in heels, the suggestion for a "OK" to go in heels forum, where we could list openly friendly and accepting places as well as definite No Go places.

" where we could list openly friendly and accepting places as well as definite No Go places." That is a great idea.

Elegant, we are on the same page 100% equality in fashions is what I push for my self on facebook, people should be able to wear what they wish..I have gone to party's wearing my black Stillwater kilt mens pantyhose and knee high heel boots with a dress jacket and the look I showed the lady's thought the look was goth chic and loved it. Here are some pictures of the boots and the kilt, the kilt pic. was taken at the Comic Con here in San Diego.

From "our" point of view- right, I agree. From society's one- unfortunately, still not. There's a double standard that allows men to wear only certain items and allows only women to wear certain items [note the position of "only"]. A good thing to subvert, and that's what I wrote about. What I'm interested in is not trying to pass as female [many people do, but it's not my thing], but blurring the gender boundaries so much that I could be perceived as male or female with an equal chance. I also object to any gender differences that have nothing to do with actual anatomical/ physiological differences between males and females.

So what has she picked for you and do you wear 4" pumps? what is you girlfriend thought about men wearing high heels?

I love to wear my 4" heel boots and I have a girl friend that supports me also, I may ask her to pick out what she would like to see me wear. your very lucky to have a girlfriend that supports you.

Hello friend, may I ask what your style is, I'm asking this to help me, How do you wear your 4 1/2" block-heeled ankle boots, do you wear jeans or dress pants with a dress shirt and jacket? I have many knee high heel boots my self and I wear them out side of the jeans tucked in under the boot and they are 4" or 4 1/2" heels, here are four pictures..

I don't know I would go so far as describe it as "what she would like to see me wear", but my wife certainly knows what styles I'm going to like. Higher the better, and suitable for street use.... So no 5" stilletoes.

But 4 1/2" block-heeled ankle boots, well .....

I doubt she would go out and buy them for me, but I've had the offer from her to pay for a couple of pairs I really wanted, and were a bit expensive.

Hello, Where am I? I'm from San Diego,CA United States.

Hello Gustav, and welcome.

Where are you in the World?

Hello friends, I have seen one friend here and glad of it, as for me, I love Fashions and feel that it's time for Equality in Fashions so I also wear heels most of the time I'm not at work, I found you through a mens free style Fashion blog.

Take care and happy heeling.

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