scrappycoco

Long story short. I'm jealous that women get to wear high heels, and sad my wife seldomly does. She says they're expensive or hurt a lot, or look ugly, plus 101 excuses . I really adore high heels a lot, since a kid . I would really love to try wearing them in public but am too afraid, and I need my wife to acompany me. (that is if she accepts my love affair with heels!)

I don't like to hide stuff from my wife, but I definitely know she will flip out when I tell her I like to wear high heels. She's very strict and hard headed. We're happily married for two years.

Some of you guys are extremely lucky to have a wife that understands your high heel adoration. So, how would I approach my wife on this? I read a post on another site saying it's best not to tell because she won't understand. If there's any other advice I'll appreciate it. and Merry Christmas and Happy New Years!

Ok Will I maybe able to help you a little on this one. My wife is that same way she use to wear heels all the time when she was younger and didn't have any kids. Now that we have 2 girls she has gotten into mom mode I call it. Her sense of style and self has went right out the window. For me ans wearing heels with her has been a very long and up hill battle. I have loved the way womens clothing has looked every since I was a kid. I had the type of parents that would never let that happen. So for so many years I had to represse my sense of self and style of clothing I liked to wear. With that being said when I started dating my wife she had this skirt and hose she would let me wear from time to time. Any way long story short I slowly fazed thing''s in on her. Along the way I had to prove to her that 1 I still loved her and care for her 2 that just becuase I like to wear a certian style of clothing weather it's mens or womens I am still a man and that will never change 3 I have had to show and prove to her that I am not interested in being a women. I am perfectly happy being me! So those are something's to keep in mind when dealing with your SO and heels or any other odd thing for a man.

See my wife will say the same thing to me about men not wearing this or that. It has taken me a long while by showing her that look just becuase I wear this or that I am still your husband and I am still 100% male and would not have it any other way. As far as the boyfriend goes Im not sure about him yet! I have not been able to spend anytime around him. Since he and my oldest live and go to 2 different schools. Tha last thing I want to do is case the boy off for my daughter by saying oh by the way!

You had a great story. I am glad to see that your sister was so accepting. As for my sister I don't know if she would be or not. I know how she acted when she found out I wear skirts from time to time. Not sure how she would act with the heels.

Well I figured i would drop a little note and let everyone know about some of the issue's I have faced when it comes to me wearing heels with my kids! First let me start by saying that I have 2 girls age's 15 and 11. Both of them are really great kids for the most part. Right now one of the biggest issues I have had to deal with is my oldest one. First let me say she does not mind me wearing heels and supports me in the way I dress 100%. Where the problem lies is now that she is older her friends are coming over more and it is kind of hard sometimes to try to hide what I am wearing. I am not the type of guy that just wears heels. I will also wear skirts, women's jeans, and women's dress pants quite often. For me what I have had to do is try to sit back and get a good feel for my oldest girls friends and see witch ones I can trust to know about how I dress and witch ones I can not. So with that being said at this point I have told one of her friend's about how I dress and she is cool with it. She has even given me some advise on what looks good on me and what does not. Both of my girls are very supportive of me and help me out with what they think looks good on me. I just worry so much about one of there friends finding out about me and how I dress and using that to make fun of them. Cause I know of at least one that would I know this because we have had problems with this girl before. I have tried so hard to impress on my kids that anyone that would do something like that is not truly your friend. Now come's the other issue with the fact that my oldest is now dating boys. That is a whole nother bridge to cross!

I just wanted to stop in and say Hello! I am a guy that wear's heels quite often and have worn them from sometime. Anyone interested in talking let me know.