Alex

Hi everybody! I don't know if this is the right place to post my request, but I have one question that I wanted to post but don't find a right forum to. In next week I am to fly to California and Nevada (USA) for vacations with my wife, and I am planning to carry only woman shoes... Of course, I don't know if it is really possible. That is the question: Is there anybody that can tell me places where I could go, as well as places were I couldn't go in Las Vegas, Los Angeles, San Francisco? What about small cities? Due to this question, my suggestion is to create a forum for "Places to go / Places not to go" or something like that, where we could ask and help all of us telling where people is open minded to accept men with woman shoes, and where people would treat us badly. Alex

Hi Hellman500, Thank you for your words. Well, it is a mix of luck plus a real wish to live myself as close as I am in deep. Of couse it is not an easy thing, but I am very motivated to do step-by-step. By the way, I see you go to streets using heels as well, yes? Where do you live? I am to go to California-USA for vacations and I am planning not to carry man shoes... In fact I am to post a topic asking to all about if they think it is possible to drive around California using woman shoes without any problem... Tks again for your post!! Alex

Hello FastFreddy2, Tks for your welcome! I am really enjoying the last months where I finally am putting my feelings outside. Slowly I am getting used and letting people around my life getting used about me using some feminine shoes. It is interesting that what for me was a great challenge some time ago, (for example, going on streets using simple black flat shoes) now is becoming normal!! Me and my wife live in an apartment, and it is obligatory to pass through the doorkeepers. It is strange, but it is more difficult to be exposed to people that I know that strange people. In fact, I thing it is not only my thought. I suppose it is the same for all of us. I already walk in streets and even go to supermarket using mid heeled peep-toes, but I still have to pass through the doorkeepers using the black flats... (Smiles)... Some months ago I was talking to my wife to tell persons near myself about my desire to be the real Alex: a man that feels better using woman shoes. We've got a couple who are long time our friends. They are more open-minded that usual. Debora is the woman. She is one of my best friends. One day I woke up thinking: "it is the time to tell her"! I called her, asking if I could go to her home to talk. Of course she agreed. At afternoon I went to there, we talked for hours about work, weather, marriage, etc, etc. But I couldn't tell her about the main reason I was there!! I stayed there for several hours, but no word about high heels came out of my mouth!!!! I was really terrified thinking what she would think about me!!! In the next morning, I was so frustrated. I called her again and invited her to have lunch. At that point, she probably was thinking I had a big problem!! Then, in the restaurant, I took courage and in a breathe told her: "Debora, I like woman shoes. I like them so much that I like to use them..."!!! She looked me with some relief on her eyes and told: "Wow! Is it what you were trying to tell me since yesterday?? I was becoming really worried about what could be happening to you!! I thing you will be great using woman shoes!!" I could not believe in what I was hearing! She started to ask me what kind of shoes I liked more, what colors, etc!! She really made me relax, and we talked for hours. We went to her house, she showed me her preferred shoes, I tried some ones (it is a pity that I wear 3 numbers more... ). She asked if she could tell her husband (he is my friend since college!!). I agreed. I left her home in a relief that I couldn't believe! Some days after, they called inviting me and my wife to an dinner in her home, but with a condition: they only accepted me if I went using high heels!!! I just could not believe!!! That night was so pleasant; they treated me without any bias. As a matter of fact, after that night I fell they are more friends than ever! Ever since they invited us lots of time again for dinner, and some of their friends already met me using sandals and pumps!! Well, this is a great episode of my life!! Alex

Hello! I just registered in this very useful wonderful site! It is very important to all os us to have a place to connect ourselves. I hope I can help another persons that have same crazy and delightful taste for shoes!! I am 41 years old, live in Sao Paulo, Brazil. Fortunatelly I am married with a woman that knows and supports me in using heels. Nowadays I am gong out of home in low and mid heels for shoppings, restaurants, going to house of a couple friends mine, and slowly I am getting confident to tell my other friends about it. What I can say? Finally I am feeling myself as I am in truth... I want to welcome and thanks all of you! Alexandre P.S.: Sorry for my english....